bessiedoll Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 i am moving to Narellan in 34 days and i am so scared that i am going to feel isolated, or that i am going to suffocate my partner, by needing to be around him all the time. i need to find my own friends, but i have no idea how i am going to achieve this.. im 24 and from just outside newcastle.. although here i dont have a massive group of friends or a buzzing social life ( partly my choice, partly due to work) i have enough friends so that i never feel lonely.. i would just love to have a couple of friends that i could maybe go our for coffee with or movies or dinner or something, even just to have people to text and call, cos i do love to talk :wink:.. also would love to be able to have dinner parties etc. i have no kids, i imagine it would be easier to male friends with other mums, but i guess i would look a bit strange hanging round the school gates looking for friends without a kid :biglaugh: now i feel like i am writing a lonely hearts add!! xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Pom Queen Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 I'm not in the area you are moving to but there are plenty of us on here that can be virtual friends :hug: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bessiedoll Posted January 24, 2012 Author Share Posted January 24, 2012 yay!!!!! even that will be great. im such a lively sociable person that i think i may go crazy if i am stuck in the house every day, and as much as my fella loves me, im sure he wil get sick of me too xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Pom Queen Posted January 24, 2012 Share Posted January 24, 2012 Lol, PIO has been a life saver to me on so many occasions, it saves me going mad by talking to myself x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bessiedoll Posted January 24, 2012 Author Share Posted January 24, 2012 having someone to talk to makes all the difference.. i dont think i could have a very good conversation with the kitten xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest The Pom Queen Posted January 25, 2012 Share Posted January 25, 2012 having someone to talk to makes all the difference.. i dont think i could have a very good conversation with the kitten xx I dont know sometimes you get more sense from animals. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
anlopa Posted January 25, 2012 Share Posted January 25, 2012 try and find a sports team in the area. A netball team or something, Team sports are a great way to find friends. even a joga or zumba class, or join a gym. I do think the team sports is the best though to make friends. Thats if you are sporty though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bessiedoll Posted January 27, 2012 Author Share Posted January 27, 2012 im more of a watcher than a competetor when it comes to sports.. maybe i could do an evening class in something that i might be interested in.. maybe something creative, or a language? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bessiedoll Posted January 30, 2012 Author Share Posted January 30, 2012 i have just applied to be a volunteer with a few different organisations, so i think that should help me. also we have had new neighbours move in, my partner says they seem really nice, so i could just make friends with them.. so its not looking as scary as i first thought.. xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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